Whom i love or who loves me?

Love is feeling which is felt by most of us. Everyone has different way of love. But we do. Btw recently i have noticed that i am thinking on this quite a deep. Have i fallen in love? Who knows. Really i dont know. Hahaha. Lets get back to the topic.

Actually today i have two things like an equation that which one we should choose between the person whom i love and the person who loves me. Okay i am gonna give all my personal opinions on this matter.

Whats on my mind about choosing the person whom i love?
We do love a person when we feel something special about him or her. You can't think evil or any harm to the person as long as you love. Suppose myself loving a girl, i don't know whether she will love me back or will not do so.But to me i can be loyal that i will love her no matter what she will do. If she loves me back well that's heavenly feeling and if she doesn’t that's also okay as far as i love her and will continue to do so. Nothing goes vain.

What's on my mind about choosing the person who loves me?
Sometimes we are also being loved by many people around us. Who thinks good for us. Who do cares for us. Who loves us. They do love you but you didn’t know or after knowing what should you do. Well, as i am giving my opinions i would prefer to step back if i am not interested to her from the beginning. As i love someone else then i wont be able to love another person and as a result there will be a matter of disloyal. Think of that,if you can't love a person back with your whole heart then how can you choose that person. You wont be able to give what the person really deserves.

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So in my point of view its better to love the person you love instead of choosing the person who loves you if you aren’t well interested. Because without proper interest or love nothing can last long. There will be always a regret or something like doing mistake feeling. Well some may think of giving chance to who loves me. Actually thats also a good idea but its not like a test drive that lets go into the relationship if i dont feel good i will break it. I dont know about the others but i feel this way. So if we wanna dive we should dive into it properly without any kind of holes.

Btw, you may call my choosing as going into one sided love instead of taking risk of getting into a wrong relationship. Actually i also call it the same. Take your chance on your love if doesn’t work out well lets move on and see if we can love one sidedly. You may also move on with who loves you if you can truly love that person also.Actually i always prefer easy, clear,simple and safe processes on everything.

Well that's it for now,its getting late and better to sleep now. So i have expressed my opinions, i think i have said what i meant to say and also there are some fog as everything has possibilities. Btw thats not the end, i also wanna hear about it from you guys. So the question remains same- Whom will you choose between the person you love and the person who loves you?.Feel free to share your opinion with me. I will be very much happy on that. Thank you for your time.