You can find out where stress comes into your life

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To eliminate or at least manage stress, it is important to know and understand the causes of stress. Of course, there are many causes of stress and they are different as people suffer from stress, but there are some places to look first. And if you learn more about these causes of stress, you can find out where stress comes into your life.

It's a little like wrestling a gorilla. You don't quit when you're tired - you quit when the gorilla is tired. -Robert Strauss

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One of the most common and complaining causes of stress is work. But it's not just daily activities and routine labor pressure that can cause stress. Worrying about finding a job can be a source of stress.

Unfortunately, the combined stress of the job itself and the possibility of losing it leads to a kind of double stress, in which people feel that they are working even harder to keep their jobs, making stress much worse.

Even for those who have not yet entered the world of work, a school can be a great source of stress. Constant pressure from schoolwork, friends, teachers, tests, quizzes, documents, and everything else can be enough to make everyone feel trapped in a vice. Besides, deadlines are ready, so students are constantly under the pressure of time.

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And, to make matters worse, there are often several overlapping deadlines that exacerbate requests for time. Then, when the final exams arrive, there is a lot to learn and students have to spend so much time studying that they can barely sleep. Of course, tasteless sleep doesn't help people who are stressed.

As a result, students deal with people who work appropriately as workers.`
Another cause of stress is simple family life. Unfortunately, we hope that our home life can be a source of daily stress relief, but they can often be sources of stress. For parents and spouses, the home can often be a source of pressure.

For parents, stress can often come from caring for their children. After all, it is enough to watch a child grow up, make mistakes, go to school, go to university, play sports, and often learn things the hard way to have a parent's hair torn off. Despite the joy that children can bring, they can also be causes of stress and concern.

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Unfortunately, parents can also be causes of stress. Although they often keep an eye on the well-being of their children, they can also put a lot of pressure on their children, which leads them to worry not only about school or life but also about how their parents will react when they learn about a new event, success or mistake. It's like there's nowhere to turn around when things go wrong, which creates extra stress.

Besides, spouses can also be causes of stress. Love it, married couples frequently have huge desires for other people and it isn't in every case simple to satisfy the best desires. Additionally, companions frequently invest a ton of energy keeping away from specific subjects since they attempt to evade pressure.

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In any case, leaving the strain noticeable all around uncertainty can be a reason for pressure.

Cash is additionally one of the fundamental drivers of stress, simply because it never seems to be enough. So, as the money keeps coming out, but it never seems to be enough, the stress keeps going up. Unfortunately, spouses, children, and sometimes parents can often remind us of our shortcomings and often stress.

Of course, that doesn't mean anything about continuous mortgages or rental reminders, car payments, credit cards, and other bills. Besides, it is quite difficult to be philosophical about the stress of money, because trying to put things into perspective only reminds us of thoughts about money that always seem to be lacking. As a result, the stress of money continues to build up and there never seems to be a way out.

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Although this is only a partial list of all possible causes of stress, these are some of the most common sources. But no matter where the problem occurs, stress won't do it any better. Instead, stress will only make it harder for people to think about their problems and try to solve them. So solving the problems that lead to stress is managing stress and then working to solve problems with a clear mind.

Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed, or offended. But what you're doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you.-Joel Osteen

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Great post, as usual, @queenofspades9! There are plenty of things that we can stress about... It looks that stress is waiting behind every corner...

Sometimes, it looks like people are searching things to stress about... I would say that we don't have to search for stress, it will find us, don't worry... But, only if we ALLOW it to occupy us... We are the KEY, and we can REJECT that feeling...

Thanks for sharing!



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Nice post...
We always told to loved once not to take stress but most of the time it is inherent and induce in our mind automatically.
Stress is main cause of the illness as it is mother off hypertension.
The best way to release the stress is to do the things you like the most... listening to the music,meditation etc....
Music best suits to me and to most if the people I guess...