Everyone has an expectation. If you are a student, you study to learn and do well in the exam. When your parents see your good results, they are very happy. After school, you go to college. When you pass HSC, your target is to get admitted to your desired university.
If you do not get a chance to study at the university that you dreamed of, you become hopeless for the time being. On the other hand, when you get a chance to study at the university that you always wanted, you feel great.
You face different things as a student. Sometimes you are happy and you see a bright future. Sometimes you go through a tough time. When you finish your academic studies, you are excited to start your professional career.
What is one of the most vulnerable times we all go through?
The time is when you finish your academic studies and try to get a job. You are hopeful and sometimes you become hopeless. You are looking for a job. Your parents look at you and you feel their expectations.
You see your friends get jobs. You have not got a job yet. You are hopeful that you will get a job soon. You imagine your life after getting a job. You dream about a lot of things, taking care of your parents, getting married, spending the most beautiful moment of your life and so on.
One of my friends who got a job earlier than I said, you are fine, you don't know what you have to go through in your professional life after getting a job. I said I need to get a job because I think getting a job would solve everything and I would be happy.
I got the job. I am very happy. Everything is fine. You know the feeling when you go to the office for the first time after getting the job.
After a certain period of time, I realize that my friend was right. You would not know what would be your life unless you get there. I see people complaining about what they are going through in your job. They work hard, and they do not get what they deserve.
I don't know how you take it, but complaining about your job and something related to it is not going to solve anything. You might feel better after complaining, but you will face the same thing the next day. You feel like you are trapped in a circle.
Most people get stuck in that situation. If you do not like your job, you can change your job and get a new job. You have the options. Ask yourself what it is that you really want. If you really want to do something on your own and do not like to do a job, you have to make your move.
You will not see any change until you take action to change things. You have to get out of your comfort zone and take risks. If you are afraid of taking a risk, you have no idea that you already take a big risk. Sometimes taking no risk is the biggest risk of all.
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