The Same Measure

For days now things had been really awkward with a friend of mine.
We stopped talking for some reasons we don't even know about.
We avoided each other. Ignored each other. No one wanted to attempt to find out what happened or why we weren't talking to each other, we just continued that way and minded our business for days.

I was okay on my part, I wasn't really bothered but I didn't know I was causing her pains by just being nonchalant about the whole thing.
I didn't know because I wasn't informed.
But when I finally got to know what was happening and the things I was putting her through, I felt really bad.
When she told me everything and what my attitude and behavior caused her, I had to ponder on how I treated people unfairly even without knowing.

And this led me to this article.
Yes, most times we can be very unfair with our treatments to others without even knowing.
There are times we hurt the people around us unconsciously. Not that we planned it or that we had intentions to, but it just happens.
Our attitudes and behavior towards people can cause them so much.
The way we respond to them. Even the way we relate with them as well.

Most times those people may not tell us how deeply they are hurt by our actions.
Some let it slip while others seek ways to avenge whatever it is we made them go through or feel.
We can hurt a person even without knowing.
We can cause people to be depressed, sad, etc and they don't always have to tell us about it.
So what we need to do is to treat everyone nicely and fairly.
There is a slogan that says; "Do unto others what you would want others to do unto you".

If you don't expect ill-treatments from other people, then you should be very careful not to make yourself a distribution of it either.
If you don't wanna be hurt by others then you should try all you could to ensure you aren't hurting others either, whether consciously or unconsciously.
Learn to relate well with people. Learn to do good to others and treat everyone nicely and justly.

Hello, faithful ones, thank you for checking out my words for you guys today and I pray that someone gets the message in today's post.
Thank you for stopping by and reading through.
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