If anyone were to be in my shoes then I will also love to know what their decision would be.
Cause at that point, I think it was the best decision I have ever made for me concerning this matter
Two months ago, Kelsey walked into the house with some guy, and when I asked her about the guy's place in her life, all I had from her was the "don't worry" attitude she usually gives me when she doesn't wanna attend to my undying questions and don't get me wrong, I am not overly protective but I can't also say I don't feel a little insecure about her actions most times with her unbearable attitudes too.
It's not the first time Kelsey has given me that attitude so technically I was getting used to it all and I wasn't ready for any trouble that afternoon when she came with the young guy just to pick up a few things at home.
I mean I wouldn't have had any problem if she only had her affairs behind my back but her doing it in my very present and even having the guts to walk in on me with the guy was what I couldn't take or even welcome.
That was the highest form of disrespect but I never showed it until the young man left.
I sat Kelsey up later that night to simply ask her what was going on and what she was doing. She told me she wasn't doing anything and that I should let her breathe and have her space.
I asked her about the guy I saw earlier with her and instead of Kelsey politely answering my question, she started arguing and blaming my insecurities.
She said she had already told me not to worry about the guy but I still went ahead to bother myself with it.
According to her; that's my headache
This is someone I have been dating for the past three years but still, there was no sign of change in her.
Severally I have attempted a breakup so we two could just go our separate ways but she kept crying, whining, and disturbing me for days, and yet when I accept her back to start all over again and see if she could change her ways, the story never changes and it kept repeating itself over and over again until I couldn't take it anymore. Yes, you heard me right.
Fast forward to the last incident. I came back one night tired and stressed hoping to take a cold bath and have a very nice meal. When I returned that night, Kelsey wasn't home. I thought maybe she had stepped out to grab a few things or groceries but only for my thoughts to fail me.
To say the worst, there wasn't anything like food when I stumbled into the kitchen since I couldn't wait anymore or longer for her, and to my greatest surprise, there was no food, none in the refrigerator as well.
At first, I was worried thinking something must have happened that she couldn't prepare a meal for dinner.
But little did I know that Kelsey was out the whole night having fun with people she called friends.
She came back almost drunk that night and since I didn't want troubles that night, I let it slide but in my mind, I was already done with the relationship. I wasn't gonna do it anymore and nothing anyone would tell me was going to change my mind.
Three days after that night, I broke up with Kelsey. Her endless tantrums and cries didn't make any meaning to me cause I wasn't going to change my mind or whatsoever. I was already fed up and I couldn't take it anymore.
I had been dying in silence and condoling too much for way too long.
No, I wasn't going to take it again. I didn't care any less about what she would do later, all I knew is that I couldn't have Kelsey walking all over me again and again so that was it. That was my final decision and I stuck to it and never have I had a second thought or change of mind.
All I can say is that ever since then, I have had the best moment of my life with so much peace of mind.
Still your baby girl ;)
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31 July 2021